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The Democratic Convention: Half Dog and Pony Show, Half Compelling Vision

Ben Cohen · September 05,2012

I watched as much of the first day of the Democratic Convention in Charlotte, North Carolina as I could stomach, and was left with the following thoughts.

The negative:

1. As always, it was a slick marketing campaign under the guise of a political convention. We heard sound byte after sound byte, skilfully edited video clips with emotional appeals to various Democratic demographics and a lot of idol worship. The whole thing was a gigantic advertisement for Barack Obama devoid of serious substance, not a serious political platform.

2. Not sure if I’m alone here, but I wasn’t blown away with the supposed rising star of the convention Julian Castro. I thought his speech was pretty dull and formulaic, and gushing over his mother in public was pretty cringe worthy (sorry, I’m British – we don’t do that kind of stuff). I really don’t like the way the media labels any ethnic candidate with semi decent oratorical skills as ‘the one to watch’. Ever since Obama propelled onto the national scene, they’ve done this with politicians like Bobby Jindal, Richard Steele, and Cory Booker. It’s pretty offensive and condescending if you ask me – politicians should be judged on their ability, not their ethnicity. And to be frank, I didn’t think Castro was particularly good. Perhaps he’ll get better with time, but he’s no Bill Clinton or Barack Obama.

3. While Michelle Obama’s speech was excellent, it was again another well designed piece of emotional trickery in order to sell Barack Obama the man and brand rather than the actual politician. Politician’s back stories should not be of serious interest to anyone concerned about the state of the country – they should care about their policies.

The positive:

1. Regardless of my cynicism, the Democrats did a much better job than the Republicans did. The event was extremely energetic, well presented and well run. And as Chez Pazienza noted, “The Democrats went out there last night and looked like a party on top of the world. They were focused, energized, determined — and at the same time they seemed as if they were offering the truly American vision that their political adversaries seemed to have a monopoly on for so long.”

2. While they were short on substance, the overall theme was pretty clear – Mitt Romney is running for the rich, and President Obama is running for every day Americans. Sure, this isn’t technically true as both candidates won’t tamper with a system rigged to benefit the rich, but there is a difference between the candidates and the Democrats are marking their territory there. The stories told by Michelle Obama and Julian Castro are in stark contrast to Mitt Romney’s upbringing of extreme privilege, and the Democrats are right to hammer the point home that Romney really hasn’t got a clue.

3. Former Ohio Gov. Ted Strickland had the best one liner I’ve heard in many months: “If Mitt was Santa Claus, he’d fire the reindeer and outsource the elves.”

 

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False Equivalence and the Akin Rape Remarks

Bob Cesca · August 23,2012
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By Bob Cesca: One of the prerequisites for being a political writer/junkie is a natural and sometimes frustrating inability to keep my yapper shut. Admittedly, I have a big mouth.

Nevertheless, being an outspoken critic of current events and politics is especially dangerous when I observe a friend, family member or colleague making a flawed or downright wrong argument — especially when the flaw is something that, in my view, is not only a self-defeating flaw of liberalism, but also an insufferable hobby horse of the timid press corp.

Specifically, I’m talking about the logical fallacy known as the false equivalence, or what I sometimes refer to as the “both sides meme.” Simply put, false equivalence is a deliberate correlation of two disparate things in order to suggest balance.

Most recently, I read a blog post by my friend and podcast partner, Chez Pazienza, in which this fallacy happened to have been the lead. So I couldn’t help myself. I had to challenge Chez on Facebook regarding his use of the both sides meme. Now, I didn’t challenge Chez just to prove him wrong. There are several broader points to be made when it comes to this all-too-common fallacy as it applies to liberal framing.

Chez’s post was mainly about criticizing Wikileaks founder Julian Assange and a New York Times op/ed written by Michael Moore and Oliver Stone in which they accused officials of violating Assange’s free speech rights. But unfortunately Chez began the post by coupling Todd Akin’s ridiculous comments about rape and abortion with the Moore/Stone op/ed:

You know, in the interest of fairness I wanted to take a minute and remind everyone that the Neanderthals on the right are by no means the only ones willing to claim that there are varying degrees of rape — that some rape is really rape while other rape is, I don’t know, like a warm bath on a cool autumn evening.

There are those on the left just as comfortable engaging in inexcusable and repulsive semantics when it comes time to defend someone they happen to think is serving the greater good.

I don’t know how else to read this other than to see an obviously lopsided false equivalence. Again, Chez’s assertion was that both sides “claim that there are varying degrees of rape.” He wrote, “there are those on the left just as comfortable” parsing the word. He also posted the link to his post on Facebook with the comment: “Just in case anyone thinks that it’s only the right that’s capable of pulling this kind of crap.” Again, the right and left both do this and are equally wrong.

When I read the post, I responded via Facebook and suggested to Chez that there was no need to correlate Michael Moore and Todd Akin. Why not simply dissect the op/ed instead of telling his readers that liberals are just as bad as conservatives on what actions constitutes rape and how female biology reacts in those tragic circumstances? While Assange is accused of rape, the word “rape” wasn’t used in the op/ed piece and there was no parsing or redefining or anything of the like.

Chez and some of his readers naturally objected to my evaluation by noting that Chez was merely being intellectually honest and that there was no false equivalence presented in the post. The debate lasted for about 40 comments, and Chez followed up with a column here on The Daily Banter in which he made a case for intellectual honesty and against the accusation of his original post containing a false equivalence.

Regarding the intellectual honesty defense, if anyone’s idea of intellectual honesty is to find a single instance on the left — Moore during a BBC interview two years ago and not within the NYT piece at all — and use it to counterpoint the broad systemic and legislative efforts of an entire American political party, I’m not quite sure there’s much intellectualism at work here. We’re talking about one example, which is barely an example at all, versus dozens of members of Congress including Akin and Republican vice presidential nominee Paul Ryan who tried to pass a law defining “forcible” rape. Insofar as Moore attempted to diminish the allegations of rape against Assange two years ago (he actually thinks the charges are a conspiracy to nab Assange), it was certainly in questionable taste for him to do so, though Assange is only accused of rape and hasn’t been found guilty.

On the other hand, the outrage over Akin is partly due to his words, yes, but the lion share of the outrage — I would suggest 90% — stems from the fact that he’s running for Senate, and that he’s a sitting member of Congress who’s been co-sponsoring and voting on federal laws that harshly regulate and penalize the reproductive rights of more than half of the American population. That makes the ignorance, misogyny and legislative agenda of Akin and his fellow anti-choice Republicans inherently dangerous beyond anything that one guy, Moore, could ever possibly be accused. And, by the way, Moore’s views on reproductive rights and abortion are obviously and exactly the opposite of the Republican Party, which, incidentally, will ratify its extremist anti-choice platform on Monday including a plank in support of a “personhood amendment” that contains no exceptions for rape, incest and the like. In other words, the Republican Party, unlike Moore and almost every liberal alive today, wants to criminalize abortion even if the medical procedure is performed on a victim of rape.

Are there really “Neanderthals” on both sides? Not even close. Moore said something distasteful and wrong two years ago. In what universe is this anything like Akin’s ongoing position on rape and the massive anti-woman, anti-choice political agenda of the Republican Party?

A similar false equivalence was created by the press and conservatives earlier this year when Democratic operative Hillary Rosen said Mitt Romney’s wife shouldn’t have stayed home to raise her kids. See? Both sides are engaging in a “war against women!” Of course, Republicans were passing multiple laws involving transvaginal ultrasound probes while rolling back reproductive rights, and one woman popped off with something stupid. Equal? Not a chance in hell. And it certainly wasn’t a valid or fair argument.

In a framing sense, liberals too often slip into a Pollyanna state of mind in which they believe they’ll score points with differently-minded readers/friends if they concede something that’s not entirely true. Democrats are just as corrupt as Republicans. All politicians spend too much taxpayer money. They’re all crooks! Conservatives, on the other hand, hardly ever concede anything, right or wrong. While it might be noble to concede a point in polite debate, it’s never a good idea to concede a point that simply isn’t true. The temporary result might be an easing of political tensions in the context of a debate, but the longer-term impact is that conservatives tend to exploit liberal concessions, while people in the middle tend to become more disillusioned and apathetic due to the misinterpretation that both sides are equally evil, so why bother with either of them? I always cite the example of various liberal pundits, including Moore, who repeated the tragically inaccurate idea that both Al Gore and George W. Bush were the same, so liberals should either stay at home on Election Day or vote for Ralph Nader. I’m ashamed to admit that I was suckered by that one and cast my vote in the 2000 election for Nader. If the thousands of people who voted for Nader in 2000 had voted for Gore in Florida alone, Gore would’ve won that election and, contrary to Moore et al, the first eight years of the previous decade would’ve been vastly different. Bush and Gore were nowhere near equal in almost every way, but because they both came from wealthy families and took donations from corporations and special interests, we were told that they were both corrupt and didn’t deserve our vote. Chez made a similar mistake by painting Moore and Akin with the same filthy brush.

Chez wrote: “What it’s about is attempting to hold everyone accountable in the same manner, trying as best I can not to be hypocritical and, from a strategic standpoint, to make sure that the aforementioned adversaries don’t have a weapon to use against me.”

Politics, whether writing about it or running for office, is a chess game that involves careful thought and strategy. As I’ve written before, I have no quarrels with accountability. In fact, I often debate Glenn Greenwald over what I call “smart accountability” — the process of holding similarly-minded leaders accountable in a way that doesn’t undermine my values and goals. Put another way, it’s okay to criticize the president, but liberals should do it in a way that is, 1) fair and rational, 2) doesn’t give fuel to political enemies, and 3) doesn’t undermine a liberal-leaning agenda by convincing members of the liberal base to withdraw support for that agenda. It’s a challenge, but it can be done. Stupid accountability, on the other hand, might still be accountability and, on some level, a noble endeavor, but if it motivates fellow liberals to stay home on Election Day or to support a primary challenger to Democrat X, it makes conservative victories more likely. Greenwald and others too often elevate accountability above everything else even if it could aid the election of a Republican president and a Republican Congress. There’s no thought whatsoever to the downsides of indelicate “Glennzilla” juggernaut style accountability. I believe in a more strategic approach that doesn’t result in liberals defeating themselves in the name of some sort of higher-ground. We can be responsible citizens, but we should avoid the wanton zeal that could undermine our goals.

When it’s deserved, there are ways to hold fellow liberals accountable without drawing inaccurate and unequal correlations between liberals and conservatives. You can be intellectually honest, but it doesn’t make sense, strategically or logically, to inadvertently diminish the awfulness of something a conservative like Todd Akin says by telling everyone around you that liberals say it, too, and so if everyone’s wrong nobody is right, so fuck everyone — even though half of everyone is fighting to keep abortion safe and legal; half of everyone is fighting for affordable contraception; half of everyone is fighting for equal rights for women. Michael Moore is part of that half, regardless of what he said. Todd Akin, Paul Ryan and others are enemies of those goals. By falsely reducing them to the same level, it elevates the enemies and diminishes an ally and therefore hurts the defense of core liberal values. And what upside could possibly mitigate such a loss?

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God Bless You, Shep

Chez Pazienza · August 03,2012
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Shep Smith: The only thing fair and balanced at Fox

By Chez Pazienza: I’ve been putting off writing something like this for a very long time. True, for quite a while I’ve kept a running tab of his scathing, subversive and generally balls-out brilliant comments — the ones that have gotten him justifiably tagged as the lone voice of reason at his place of work — but never have I come right out and written a full-fledged paean to Shepard Smith. The reason for this is that I feel strange doing it because Shep isn’t simply somebody I watch on TV and whose work I admire from afar — he’s someone I know very well. I came up through the ranks with Shep at WSVN in Miami almost 20 years ago; he and I moved to Los Angeles roughly around the same time soon after and we played poker and drank beer on the weekends; I saw him as recently as last year at a party on South Beach. He’s a good guy — a great guy, actually — and he’s been a terrific friend. That’s probably why I get even more satisfaction than the average person every time Shep opens his mouth and launches a spitball made of nitro glycerin into the well-oiled machinery of his employer, Fox News.

The latest example of Shep playing the endlessly entertaining role of Loki, the God of Chaos, over at Fox comes to us just this week — a couple of days ago, in fact. During a segment on his afternoon show, Studio B, Shep mentioned, apropos of nothing, that Wednesday was “national badminton day,” but he then went on to say, “Let’s forget National Day of Intolerance; let’s just stay with badminton,” an obvious reference to the resentful, right-wing ridiculousness that was “Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day.” That Shep took a swipe at an event that was surely dear to the enlarged hearts of Fox’s audience of white, bitter middle-American Christians was amusing enough — but when you throw in the fact that the day-long pledge of allegiance to Jesus’s favorite chicken sandwich was the brainchild of Mike Huckabee, who happens to also be a host on Fox News, you’ve got a moment of truly glorious on-air insurrection. Thing is, it’s exactly the kind of behavior we’ve come to expect from Shep.

For the past several years, Shep’s been building to the point he’s at now — one where he’s perfectly secure in his position and knows damn well he can say whatever he wants and get away with it. You can see the sense of liberation all over his face; it’s written in the mischievous smirk that’s become his trademark. Whether it’s mustering up just the correct amount of flippant disrespect or righteous indignation and bucking the Fox News group-think or playfully and hilariously derailing a conversation he finds tedious by throwing out a totally bizarre non-sequitur — “It’ll make you crazy, the V… You guys watch True Blood?” — Shep injects either the necessary amount of sanity or just the right amount of insanity to the proceedings, always highlighting just how crazy things regularly are at Fox News.

People aware that I’ve known Shep for years always want to know whether he’s purposely trying to get himself fired or something, and when asked I always respond the same way: Shepard Smith is too good for Fox News to get rid of; he knows it and they know it. Without giving away any state secrets — and these opinions are entirely my own and in no way reflect Shep’s thinking — I get the impression that Roger Alies appreciates both Shep’s candor and, from a business perspective, the fact that he allows Fox News to continue to promote itself as being inclusive of all points-of-view. To everyone else, Shep comes off as the only reasonable person on-air at Fox News, but to Fox’s management he’s their silver bullet against those same people, the ones who desperately want to claim that everything on the network is right-wing propaganda.

Regardless, Shep seems to be getting more and more confident — and it’s manifesting itself in all kinds of wonderful ways. He continues to exercise his bulletproof-ness with giddy abandon. Not since Brando in The Island of Dr. Moreau have we witnessed somebody so thoroughly throwing off the yoke of the people paying him and just deciding to do whatever the hell he wants. At this rate, by next week Shep will either be doing the news in white makeup, with a lampshade on his head and a midget chained to him, or he’ll just stand up, unzip his pants and begin urinating on Andrew Napolitano during an interview segment.

He’s like a fully grown Ferris Bueller over there.

And cable news is all the better for his wit, his smarts, and his willingness to not worry about the consequences of misbehaving.

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The Daily Banter Weekly Round Up!

Ben Cohen · July 27,2012
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In case you missed it here’s what we covered at The Daily Banter this week: After the awful events in Aurora, Colorado we looked at the complicated ways in which we make sense of tragedy, Bob argued that untreated mental illness pulled the trigger in Aurora, and Chez opined that despite the nature of the massacre, nothing will change in America. We looked at Republican attempts to make it harder to vote and easier to buy guns, and dismantled GOP claims of voter fraud. We asked why people hate liberals, and Chez talked about boycotting, and missing Chick-Fil-A.

Have a great weekend!

Ben, Editor

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Nothing Will Change After the Aurora Shooting

Chez Pazienza · July 24,2012
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By Chez Pazienza: The most important thing to keep in mind is that nothing’s going to change. You may as well accept that right now.

Since last week’s midnight movie shooting spree in Aurora, Colorado — the one that cost a dozen people their lives and left more than 70 others hurt — everything has moved along according to a well-established routine. We know how this works because we’ve seen it unfold far too many times before — and it now seems to do so with almost surreal and disconcerting precision. The press descends, the details trickle out, the obvious yet nearly unanswerable questions are asked, the politicization begins, the gun control debate reignites, the usual suspects step up to offer the insane fantasy of a roomful of guns somehow allowing a bold hero or two to stop the violent actions of one gunman, the lack of faith in Jesus is offered as an authentic rationale for why there was ever a gunman in the first place, pop culture is blamed — all of this is part of the machinery that ramps up every time something like this happens. And it happens far too often.

Of all the possible reactions, though, to a mass casualty shooting, only one has the potential to stop the next one from ever occurring — and unfortunately it’s a third rail that no one with any authority in this country seems to be willing to touch, particularly not in an election year. Sensible gun control is a must in any civilized society and only an idiot or a demagogue would argue differently — trouble is, there are plenty of both to go around in the U.S. these days and quite a few of them are in positions of power. The bottom line, however, is that these voices have to be marginalized for the benefit of all of us. They won’t be — they never are — but they really need to be. Somebody has to be willing to, if you’ll forgive the ironic pun, step up and take the bullet for the rest of us and fight to put the gun zealots in their place.

Understand something: I own a gun. A Sig Sauer Compact .45. I was trained in how to use it by my father who’s both an ex-cop and an ex-Navy SEAL. I don’t have an issue with the vast majority of those who own guns in this country and I certainly don’t want to see the 2nd Amendment trampled on by anyone. But at some point the madness has got to stop. And that’s what our current gun laws are as well as the loopholes that mentally disturbed people like James Holmes seem to be able to jump through without so much as a hitch: complete madness. We have the power to change it, but in keeping with tradition there will be a lot of hand-wringing in the aftermath of this violence but not a damn thing actually done to stop it from happening again.

What we’re going to hear — what we’re hearing already — are a lot of asinine histrionics from the gun lobby and its surrogates in the corridors of power about the danger of restricting our precious freedoms. It’s the usual round-robin of nonsense in which every single incidental factor at play in this attack is amplified and put on display while the most essential element of it — the very tool used to carry out the act — is pushed to the back burner through a lot of near-comical obfuscation and horseshit rationalization. The fact is that James Holmes carried a weapon of war into that theater and was equipped with enough high-caliber ammo to start his own private army — and he obtained it all legally, as was his God-given right. Thanks to that right, one guarded by every politician on the take from the NRA and enabled by those unwilling to fight the tide and press for common-sense gun laws, 12 people died. They died, in fact, to protect that right — because that’s the cost of our “freedom” in this case: people have to die.

As long as our gun laws remain what they are and as long as they’re fought for by opportunists and exploited by sociopaths, people are going to die. There will be more shootings like the one in Aurora, Colorado. It wasn’t the first and it certainly won’t be the last. But those deaths, again, will be the price of our freedom to arm ourselves to the teeth without restriction or even oversight and with virtual impunity. Three-month-olds will be shot, heroic 20-somethings will take a bullet to the back trying to save others in the chaos, young women who survived one mass murder will die in another, all so that we can continue our uninterrupted fetishistic affair with heavy artillery under the bullshit guise of needing to defend ourselves against everything from the scary brown people across the freeway to the tyrannical One World Government takeover.

The old saying is right: freedom isn’t free. It’s paid for in blood. In this case, the blood of innocent Americans. I hope it’s worth it.

But even if it isn’t, who’s going to do something about it?

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The Daily Banter Weekly Round Up!

Ben Cohen · July 13,2012
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Another big week here at The Daily Banter (our biggest traffic so far!). In case you missed it, here’s what we covered. We looked at what Mitt Romney’s fundraiser at Dick Cheney’s house means for his campaign, and argued that Romney is now adopting the racist ‘Southern Strategy’. We begged CNN to get rid of the despicable Nancy Grace over another suicide provoked by her show, and discussed a scarily inhumane discussion on Obama’s drone policy on MSNBC. Chez Pazienza weighed in on the Tosh rape joke controversy, and ripped into Libertarian ‘reporter’ John Stossel. Finally, we argued that Americans need to adopt some British style anger over the new banking scandal, and Bob asked the nation to stop devouring hamburgers for the sake of the environment.

Have a great weekend!

Ben, Editor

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The Despicable Nancy Grace

Ben Cohen · July 12,2012
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Nancy Grace: In the limelight again for provoking a suicide

 

By Ben Cohen: In perhaps one of the most unsettling stories of the year, a 29 year old mother and her baby died within months of each other in circumstances that can only be described as tragic. Toni Medrano accidentally smothered her newborn son last November after drinking a bottle of vodka and passing out next to the baby on the sofa. Medrano then died last Saturday night of injuries from injuries sustained earlier in the week when she doused herself in a flammable liquid and set herself alight.

CNN’s Nancy Grace, the ambulance chasing moralizer who makes a living of off other people’s misery not only devoted hours of pornographic programming covering the case, but arguably actively participated in provoking the young mother to suicide. From Raw Story:

Medrano was charged with two counts of manslaughter last month in Washington County court.

It was shortly after the sentencing that Nancy Grace produced a segment about Medrano for her Headline News Network show, “Nancy Grace.”

“Why no ‘murder one?’” she demanded, outraged at the lighter manslaughter charges. She then cracked open a bottle of cheap vodka and started pouring drinks in an effort to show how many drinks Medrano downed the night her baby died, insisting that a mother who showed such reckless disregard for her child’s safety should be hit with a charge of first-degree murder. It was during the segment that Grace coined the term “Vodka Mom” for Medrano.

Medrano’s mother, Yvonne Hill told Fox 9 that her daughter was trying to move on when the segment aired, than in the months since the death of Adrian Medrano, Toni had been trying to “build and move on,” but when she saw the segment, “it broke her spirit in the worst way.”

You can watch Grace’s disgusting segment below (and it’s not for the faint of heart):

Firstly, anyone who downs an entire bottle of vodka has a very serious alcohol problem, no doubt stemming from severe mental health issues. While Medrano may have been criminally culpable for the death of her infant, she would have benefited more from serious psychological counseling than a jail sentence and the wrath of narcissistic blowhards like Nancy Grace. Anyone who accidentally kills their own child must go through unimaginable guilt and self hatred and should be completely off limits to the media. I do understand the need for legal process, after all, a child was killed, but it was so horrific a case that I can see no reason to punish the mother further. Grace makes a living exploiting cases like this with absolutely no regard for the damage she causes. This isn’t the first time she has been involved in spurring on a suicide either – back in 2006 the pseudo legal expert was involved in another case where a young mother killed herself soon after incurring the histrionic wrath from the ratings obsessed presenter. Writes Chez Pazienza of the case:

Grace — in a near-sociopathic display of morbid prurience and sadistic exploitation — berated Florida mother Melinda Duckett on-air to the point where it may have led her to kill herself, then ran the pre-taped interview immediately following the suicide. (That the lawsuit blaming Grace for Duckett’s death was dismissed is immaterial; what she did was still unethical as hell.)

Duckett shot herself in the head rather than continue to face such vicious scrutiny, her parents stating that their daughter had taken her life in part because of Grace’s savaging.

Grace has never shown remorse for breaking a clearly mentally unwell woman, and has continued to ply her trade as an accusation hurling mega mouth. It is an outrage that CNN continues to hire her and the organization is sullying its name by associating with her. Grace is not criminally culpable for the death of Duckett or Medrano, but it is clear that her cruel hectoring created an environment that aided the tragic outcomes in both cases.

Nancy Grace doesn’t care about the lives she wrecks – she cares about her career and will do anything to stay in the limelight. While she may feign regret that Duckett and Medrano took their own lives, really, she bathes in the attention the cases bring her. As Chez writes:

In her [Grace's] mind she is the only real arbiter of right, wrong and legality and therefore it’s within her God-given right to sit in judgment of each and every court case she calculatingly milks of every last drop of soap-opera tawdriness in the name of keeping herself relevant.

Controversy sells, and Grace clearly doesn’t care whether she’s personally involved or not. The more extreme the case the better, and if Grace has to break a few eggs to boost her ratings, then so be it.

It’s time to let her go CNN.

Please.

Enough is enough.

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Coop Comes Out

Chez Pazienza · July 02,2012
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Anderson Cooper on being gay: Finally it's official (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

By Chez Pazienza: A little background on the subject at hand: Back during the 2004 presidential race, at the Democratic National Convention, Anderson Cooper was doing an interview with hip-hop mogul and political dilettante Diddy at a time when I happened to be in the CNN control room in Atlanta. The live one-on-one was wrapping up, when Diddy offered Anderson one of the ridiculous “Vote or Die” t-shirts he had been pimping as part of his high-profile but incomprehensibly messaged get-out-the-vote campaign. “Here, take one for yourself,” Diddy said, throwing a t-shirt in Anderson’s direction. “No, I really can’t accept it,” Anderson returned, understanding that it wasn’t jounalistically responsible to collect political swag, certainly not while on the job. Diddy’s response: “No, man, then give it to your girlfriend.” This brought a wonderfully sheepish smile to Anderson’s face as he motioned to Diddy that he still couldn’t accept the shirt, all while Diddy kept obliviously insisting, “Give it to your girlfriend — give it to your girlfriend, man.” In the control room, meanwhile, every one of us laughed a little — because every one of us knew that Diddy was being wildly presumptuous, that Anderson Cooper didn’t have a girlfriend and almost certainly wouldn’t have one at any point in the rest of his life.

And now, finally, the worst kept secret in television news is out of the bag. Anderson Cooper is confirming to America that he’s gay.

The admission came in an e-mail to Anderson’s longtime friend Andrew Sullivan, an e-mail that Coop gave Sullivan permission to publish in his column over at the Daily Beast. In the articulate, matter-of-fact and yet beautifully personal message, Cooper says that he’s always valued his privacy and has never felt like it was anyone’s business who he is as a person as long as he brings the audience the news fairly and accurately, that in fact it was both ethically responsible and smart from a personal-safety perspective — given some of the places around the world that he reports from — to keep the details of his private life exactly that: private. But then he goes on to say this:

“Recently, however, I’ve begun to consider whether the unintended outcomes of maintaining my privacy outweigh personal and professional principle. It’s become clear to me that by remaining silent on certain aspects of my personal life for so long, I have given some the mistaken impression that I am trying to hide something – something that makes me uncomfortable, ashamed or even afraid. This is distressing because it is simply not true.

I’ve also been reminded recently that while as a society we are moving toward greater inclusion and equality for all people, the tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible. There continue to be far too many incidences of bullying of young people, as well as discrimination and violence against people of all ages, based on their sexual orientation, and I believe there is value in making clear where I stand.

The fact is, I’m gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.”

I’ve always respected Anderson Cooper as a journalist and a human being; he’s smart, professional, charismatic, outstanding at what he does and an all-around good guy. I also always respected his decision to retain some privacy for himself because, like him, I never thought that it was anyone’s business to know the very intimate details of his life simply because they may have felt that they were entitled to them by being a loyal viewer. If Coop wanted to keep his sexual orientation, while not necessarily a secret, something beyond a topic for public discussion then he was right to do so because it was his decision and no one else’s. That being said, I respect Coop even more for coming out and for doing it the way he did and at the time of his choosing — a time, as it turns out, that I truly believe his very earnest yet practical admission can do a great deal of good for the cause of gay rights in this country. Coop’s respected voice being added to the profusion of people, companies, political organizations and so on who’ve chosen to take a stand for the rights of gay people to simply be who they are — no more, no less — can only do good. It can only provide one more excellent example for gay kids to emulate and one more face and name that can help destigmatize homosexuality among those still inexplicably frightened of or confused by it.

Anderson came out with class, which is to be expected from him. And by doing it the way he did, he said something about where gay rights are in this country and where they still need to be. He had the comfort to admit that as a gay man, he’s just like everyone else — that his sexuality doesn’t define him any more than a straight person’s sexuality defines him or her. But he knows that not everyone sees it this way — and maybe by doing what he did he can help change somebody’s mind. In some way, it may wind up being the most important report Coop has ever offered — and he’s to be commended for that.

Anderson Cooper is gay, which isn’t a big deal to him — it’s simply who he is. Wouldn’t it be something if we got to the point where it wasn’t a big deal for anybody else either?

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Ben Cohen · June 29,2012
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In case you missed it, here’s what we covered this week at The Daily Banter! Chez Pazienza commented on the victory for Obamacare and warned the Left not to get too excited, Bob Cesca explained why Republicans love Obamacare, but just don’t know it. We looked at possibly the most painful interview ever, and compared British and American journalistic techniques, Bob wrote about Americans blaming Reaganomics for the recession, but wanting more Reaganomics to fix it, and we explored the misuse of Darwinism in conservative economics. Chez also critiqued Aaron Sorkin’s new HBO series, ‘The News Room’:
And finally, I went on Abby Martin’s show to discuss the Supreme Court’s ruling on Arizona’s immigration laws:

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June 22,2012
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In case you missed it, here’s what we covered this week at The Daily Banter (and it was a very big week for us – highest traffic so far!): Mark Ames broke a big story on the Left’s total abandonment of labor rights, Chez Pazienza wrote a heart breaking piece on the merciless bullying of a 68-year-old widow to the point where she cried, and profiled MSNBC’s new vacant conservative host, Bob Cesca drew comparisons between the months leading up to President Clinton’s impeachment and what is happening to Obama, and contrasted the Republican’s treatment of women saying ‘vagina’ and conservatives shouting at the President. We also looked at the poverty epidemic the media refuses to cover, and argued that President Obama is still a major force for progressive politics despite his many flaws.

Have a great weekend!

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